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@shesbardi @Bytch_Mode247 @FixYoPosture @talleyberrybaby No doubt he loved her or he wouldn’t have kept taking her back in spite of her messy, gold digger BS but he was undoubtedly sick of her shit by this point + they were off again within a few weeks of this. It wasn’t healthy at all and the ones who watched in real time know that

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@shesbardi @Bytch_Mode247 @FixYoPosture @talleyberrybaby Body language? You mean like how he’s leaning away from her in every photo here? There’s a reason they broke up shortly after this. And her subtweeting him like a 12 year old every time she didn’t get her way is only a fraction of it.

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@FixYoPosture @talleyberrybaby This.
This was after 2+ years of her being trashy asl and subtweeting him every time they’d fight and saying he was “cheap” bc he wouldn’t just hand his card to an obvious gold digger he had an off and on rxship with. If people think this looks healthy or happy, I pity them 😬

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@Dreadful4Tymes This!
I know exactly when mine broke. I was like 7 and sitting on one of those teeter totter swings things and accidentally racked myself. The “hymen” test is dumb as hell

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@sagiterrorist19 @Karnythia Oh is she actually claiming her Blackness again? Funny how that works. She wears Blackness like a costume she can take off and on at her discretion and folks still eat it up every time she decides to claim it again

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@ihatethiskid Why would she even post this to begin with? Lol. It’s such an odd thing to post if you’re going to hide the name and protect hid identity anyway. It’s giving “I just wanted to make sure y’all know my ex still wants me”

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@_celia_bedelia_ @cl1kkr There’s no question that it’s pretty shitty to accept her, and her pics, only to throw that boundary out later on. But a lot of women also feel like they need to allow a man’s boundaries to eclipse their own and that’s dangerous.

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@_celia_bedelia_ @cl1kkr If that’s his boundaries, that’s his boundaries 🤷🏽‍♀️ That’s how boundaries work. She gets to say “Ok then this isn’t going to work”. He’s insecure, absolutely, but she still has agency. She’s a grown adult who for some reason has zero boundaries of her own.

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@gmiller @whyvert @empireenjoyer10 @Harvard As in maybe you’re already so privileged (in that area and many others) that it isn’t FOR you. The leg-up isn’t for you. The leveled playing field isn’t for you. Stop pretending it’s racism and keep it 💯: Asians just want their undue, unearned privilege back.

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@gmiller @whyvert @empireenjoyer10 @Harvard Ahh, yes, Asians… the demographic who we all think of as historically underrepresented in higher education. The Yt Lite demo. If you’re a person of color being harmed by a policy that helps every other ethnic and racial minority group but yours, take that sign for what it is.

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@OctaviaViento How many Black women, specifically, apply to law school? /gen

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@LordYeezus @Healtheppl @themultiplemom This list left a whole lot of stuff off.
July is Disability Pride Month, for instance. If we’re counting “lesser” heritage holidays, which Black Music History month is, you need to expand that list.

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@uncanny_eli It’s a shared experience. Of course trans women have more in common with cis men than trans men do when it comes to how we’re socialized. That doesn’t mean having more in common as a whole. There’s a lot more to gender than socialization, or trans & enby folks wouldn’t exist.

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@uncanny_eli Maybe I’m confused but that makes sense to me? AMAB and AFAB people are socialized differently and the male scariness isn’t from their gender, it’s from the socialization and conditioning they received as a male. Being trans doesn’t nullify socialization.

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@0nlyFi0na Acknowledging that doesn’t mean that the pansexual identity isn’t valid. I get the distaste for calling it out, I really do. But the fear of it being used against pansexual folks is allowing predators / abusers to wear it like a costume, one that shields them from repercussions

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@0nlyFi0na Is it queerphobia or is it pointing out the very real problem of straight people lying through their teeth about being pan in hopes of luring LGBTQ+ folks into a false sense of security by making us believe they’re “one of us” and not dangerous?

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@kishikybe People still shouldn’t be laughing at these people’s unbearable pain and loss…..they lost a pregnancy and idk them but I doubt his wife deserves to catch a stray of this magnitude….. but there are a lot of real world repercussions to equating pregnancy loss with infant loss.

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@kishikybe A baby didn’t die; a fetus simply did not develop to viability.

Language matters and those are two entirely different things. Well, unless you’re a weird anti-choicer who makes up arbitrary times for “life” to begin at based on what’s convenient at the moment, anyway.

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@missdanaaa_ This is the thing about colorism that I don’t get. There’s literally no difference. Racism is gonna racism whether you’re dark skinned or brown skinned so why is being darker consistently used as an insult by people who are a shade lighter?