"Men don’t like tall women" is a phrase i can’t get over because…Most heel designers…are men … why were heels invented? why do men like women in heels? why do men like men in heels…
I had a realization a few years ago that I don't need to figure out why this person is doing a certain behavior I dislike. All that matters is I know I don't like the behavior and I can leave
A narcissist’s timeline:
Love bomb you.
Play house with you.
Control you quietly.
Put you last.
Drain your confidence.
Play the victim when you react.
Then rewrite the story like they “tried their best.”
Meanwhile, you were carrying the relationship alone.
@Raindropsmedia1 As a mom yes this would be frustrating it’s in our dna to protect our children nd it at sound like i’m reaching but im not if u do everything for them thats difficult they are going to take that into adulthood and expect you to fix it and they will be throwing the same tantrums
bitches be wanting to be the exception to the rule so bad when it comes to these niggas. good or bad, these niggas gon treat you how they feel about themselves.
imagine having your menstrual , having raging hormones, agitated, crying & a man is matching attitudes with you because he doesn’t understand.
like what…
girl to girl, please do not tell that man everything you've been through too early. Your trauma is not a resume, and your pain is not a bonding tool. The wrong man will study your wounds, not to protect you, but to know how to access you. Healing is sacred. Vulnerability is earned. Let him show consistency, safety, and character before he gets your story. A man who deserves your heart won't need your trauma to feel close to you.
The Bible warns us not to look back at old friendships or any relationships that God has delivered us from. Lot's wife did and literally became stuck in time. My prayer is that when you're tempted to return to the past, the spirit reminds you there's so much more ahead of you!