If a person creates space between us, I just let them be..if they never come to me & explain what the issue is, we’ll probably never talk again because I really just let people be. I’m fine with losing anyone who’s ok with losing me. I fought too hard for a lot of relationships.
I’m officially at the age I don’t wanna be around people who aren’t self aware.
continuously putting themselves in bad positions, making bad life choices, toxic ways/lifestyles, no priorities lacking accountability etc.
The older you get the more you realize how precious life is. You have no desire for drama, conflict or stress. You just want good friends, a cozy home, food on the table, and people who make you happy.
At this point in my life, it doesn’t matter how much I love you, how long I’ve known you, how much we’ve experienced together. If I feel a way about your actions, I’m gracefully removing myself from your life. I can’t change anyone and I don’t want to. I’m noticing now more than ever how people move and there’s just certain things I no longer want to put my energy into. People do exactly what they want regardless of your feelings, advice or opinions. Some people don’t notice your impact until your presence is no longer at their convenience✨
@Nolovemoe_@FollowThisXimo True peace is feeling free to speak your peace when you need to speak it. If I can't be straight up with you, I cannot be around you. Stop fearing what comes after hard convos and just have the convo. Where you end is where you are meant to be