A girl had a reserved seat. But when she got on the train, someone else was seating on her seat.
GIRL: This is a reserved coach. Why are unauthorized people sitting here? Why aren’t you removing them?
RPF OFFICER: We can’t do anything about it, talk to TTE 😠
GIRL: I raised the issue twice through Rail Madad but both the complaints were closed without resolving. No one is helping 😳
Hindu activists examined the mobile phones of illegal Bangladeshi infiltrators living in Bengaluru & found multiple Google Pay transactions showing payments of ₹5,000, ₹2,000, and other amounts made regularly to @NandagudiPS Police personnel
@CPBlr@DgpKarnataka@BlrCityPolice
Lady, age 40 years, 2 children aged 17 and 14. Home maker. She is known to me since many years.
She always had many complaints with husband, with life in general. Husband doesn't love her, he doesn't take care of his health, he doesn't love children that much. He only loves his brothers and his side of the family.
Husband's job is not great. Able to make ends meet but definitely not in any rich category. He doesn't smoke or drink, doesn't waste money.
He is educating his children in good schools. Takes care of family needs. Infact, he even gave her money to her to start her own business. But business failed. He is now wanting her to start another business.
She cooks for family and rest of time is addicted to phone, well into the night. Sleep is disturbed. She gained weight. Foggy brain due to sleep deprivation. Has irritability.
For the nth time, I counseled her to take stock of her life.
Told her to throw that mobile phone away.
Asked her what she wanted from life, from husband? Asked her if she wanted to take divorce if she is that unhappy in her marriage.
She told she is thinking of divorce.
I asked her how is she going to look after her children? She is not having any job. Who will feed her and her children?
She was quiet.
Told her that her children are at the cusp of their education. They will get disturbed. What will happen to them if she takes divorce now?
She was quiet.
Asked her to think about daughter's marriage in a few years from now. Would her taking divorce affect her daughter's potential alliances??
Again silence.
Will her parents feed her and her children?
No reply from her.
Explained that taking divorce is not that easy.
And why exactly she wants divorce?? There should be a strong reason for that, isn't it?
Silence again.
Yes, husband doesn't show his love in a romantic way. Agreed. But atleast he is a good provider. He provides for their needs, they have a roof over their heads, she has status in the society.
Also, despite her business running in loss, he is still agreeing for her to start another business. He never ever asks about the finances or where or how his salary is being spent. That means he still loves her in his own way, isn't it? Perhaps not perfect...but then who is perfect?
She had a load of complaints about husband yet again. And that he doesn't want to change.
I asked her directly "are you changing?"
This was the first time I asked her this...
"I know you since so many years. I have told you so many things, but have you changed atleast a little bit?"
"I know your phone addiction. I have asked you to dispose that damn phone away. "
"I have asked you to eat healthy. I have asked you to exercise. You don't even go for a walk, forget any other exercise"
"You are perfectly capable of taking up a small job. You are otherwise healthy. Start working, earn some money. That will show you how easy or difficult it is to earn"
"Going for some chota mota job will keep you busy and occupied. You will then not have time to indulge in self-sabotaging thoughts."
"You earning your own money will give you the much needed confidence in life. Your job, your house work will keep you busy and make you tired. You will start sleeping early"
"Irritability will reduce, brain fog improves. All that extra work will make you lose weight"
"Then you can think of divorce"
"Stop blaming husband that he doesn't change. Start working on yourself. You can't change him. But you definitely can change yourself"
#MaritalIssues
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