@jon_d_doe I believe the first step is to familiarize with your father’s family, don’t force , don’t push or rush, take it slow. Not all of them will welcome you but some will, and be very careful too even with the ones that welcome you
@ndukaomeife You make marriage sound so sweet, fun and peaceful.
This is exactly what God meant when he said “He who finds a wife has found a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord”