Yeah cis women *could* have broad shoulders, or a barrel chest, or a deep voice, or visible facial hair, or a tall frame, .etc, but very rarely will you ever find someone with all of these unless if they have some horrible 1/1000000 hormonal disorder.
I am NOT evil for being trans. i'm not a monster im a young woman with an unfortunate intersex condition. im not evil, a fetishist, a rapist, or a groomer. i'm struggling with a difficult and poorly understood condition and im not evil for the fact im struggling.
is it crazy if i say its bc trans women generally have it drilled much harder into us that if something sucks or is scary or upsetting or whatever weve kinda just gotta tough it out anyways because nobody fucking cares
i feel like a lot of queer people overestimate the continuity of “maleness” and male privilege in trans women because they don’t realize by coming out and transitioning you’re literally ripping all that up. there’s a reason parents of trans women often say “my son is dead”
calling my lover “mine,” not the way my phone or my jacket is mine, but the way my favorite place is mine. not because i own it, but because i cherish it. “mine” in the sense that i care for them, protect them, and choose them every day. not possession devotion.
hi so dysphoria is not a mental condition that can be cured or even soothed with therapy or radical self acceptance or whatever. the treatment for dysphoria is transition. please stop using terf rhetoric at trans women you find unpleasant
Boymoders should be cherished and treasured. They are high value women and should be treated like a prized pet or your favorite daughter. Comparable to brides of high status kings of the past.
You should devote yourself to her happiness and she should be properly spoiled.