Women are out here sharing live locations, checking the backseats of cars, and holding their hands over their drinks. Men are doing 3 hour podcasts about how unfair it is that we don't smile at them. The disconnect is fatal.
It's wild to me that men will be like "my mom did everything, she was a superwoman, I want a woman just like her." And not "my mom did everything while my dad watched her, and I'll never be so uninvolved or absent at home that my wife is doing it all. I don't want the woman I love to suffer like that."