I went to a woman’s funeral. Her husband gave a eulogy and spoke mostly about himself. I mean he started from his birth and spent a significant amount of time explaining his life and career before he met her. Her pastor said she was the kindest, most helpful person he’d ever met.
So when your therapist asks you why people start families and women stick around and do the baby thing multiple times, apparently the answer is not “fuck the patriarchy”, but rather : oxytocin.
Turns out, my inability to cope with motherhood and bond with my kids is a direct consequence of my mother not hugging me enough as a child, nor wanting to spend time with me as an adult
In the years after the 1967 Six Day War, the Israeli army arrested/harassed anyone displaying the Palestinian flag's colors in Gaza and the West Bank. In response, many Palestinians in the region would carry sliced watermelons in a sign of subversive protest.
They spent so much time shitting on our generation, who knew it would give us the thick skin we need to see past all the bullshit.. and bravery to to stand up against the status quo.
My 4yr old KG1 daughter has online zoom classes while I have to be at work doing the same for other people’s children or she “won’t receive the final report card” 😭
“Daddy’s sister died today” was the start of a conversation about death and grief that I didn’t know if my 4y old was ready for.
But then she hugged him for a very long time and drew him a picture.
الله يرحمها رحمة واسعة و يغفر لها
23.3.21, Dad & Auntie: