I don’t want a soft life because I’m lazy ! I want a soft life because I’ve spent most of my life in survival mode ! My nervous system has been in fight or flight since childhood & now I’m choosing peace, softness & stability !
being the “understanding” one is exhausting. you carry everyone’s trauma, everyone’s problems, everyone’s excuses. but when it’s your turn to fall apart, you do it alone. no one checks. no one asks.