my side of the story doesn't matter anymore. Life happened. It hurt and I healed. Most importantly,I learned who deserves a seat at my table and who will never sit at it again
the funniest part about ppl pleasing is no one is pleased, ppl actually find you extremely annoying and spineless, and for that u will suffer. theres no real reward with conflict avoidance
i cannot deal with people who, when they’re mad they say extremely hurtful things but when they calm down they want to backtrack and say they didn't mean it. YES, YOU DID. STAND ON IT.
Guys, don't be casual with God. Stop praying while laying on your bed. If it's coffee, you sit. If it's prayers, you kneel. Posture is part of prayer. You kneel when proposing to a woman... but you lie on your back when speaking to God. Think about that quietly please
i texted her, "how was your day today?", and she sent me a 7 minute vn, telling me everything.. and that basically sums up the kind of person i want by my side. stop normalizing disinterest.
You can literally have the worst week of your life and then a few days later, life becomes so beautiful again and you feel happier than ever.
Remember this when you're going through a rough patch. It will pass. Give it time. God is on your side.
tolerating always turns to resentment.
at first, you call it patience, then love; but what it really is, is self-abandonment. every time you swallow a boundary, excuse a pattern, or silence your discomfort, something inside you keeps score.. and eventually, the bill comes due.