@Secure_Families It absolutely is a struggle. Competent high achieving people tend to be married to other competent high achieving people. If the military wants to retain the competent high achieving individuals , they need to start addressing the struggle.
@heyyitsjustjess It’d be nice if EFMP just came out and said, “ we really just don’t want you to inconvenience us.” I’d have more respect for the program if they were honest.