People really think theyβll be having sex every single time π
That first month? Yeah, youβre going at it every day, maybe even twice before breakfast. Youβre basically allergic to clothes. But give it time and reality checks in. You go from 10+ times a week to 4-5, and thatβs still a win.
Living together means sex is on tap 24/7, so eventually your brain goes, βOh cool, itβs here if I want itβ and chills out. When you donβt live together, every time you link up itβs straight to the bedroom before you even say βhow was your day?β Scarcity does things to you.
But hereβs the twist: living together unlocks other types of intimacy you couldnβt really tap into before. Cuddling while doing nothing, showering together without it turning into an Olympic event, falling asleep mid-convo. Your sex life isnβt dying β itβs just not the only player on the team anymore.
Less frequency doesnβt mean boring. It means youβve got more ways to be close than just the obvious one.