@wentsickomode@Zoya_ki_batein One person could have told the rest to stop because there's no way that's comfortable but noo, they're following the crowd.
@HappinessChrisy@Wizarab10 Your profile picture is a perfect illustration of your inability to grasp the point. You’ve clearly taken the time to shape and line up your beard, yet your moustache is conspicuously neglected and overgrown. The irony is almost poetic.
You did not do her a favour by refusing to force yourself on her when she visited you.
You did not do him a favour by refusing to bill him.
You did not do your partner a favour by remaining faithful to them.
These are not favours, they are the bare minimum expected of a decent human being. Respecting boundaries, refusing to exploit people, and remaining faithful to your partner should not be celebrated as extraordinary acts of kindness.
The fact that we now treat basic decency as a rare virtue says a lot about how backwards our society has become. We have normalised so much indecency that being a reasonable, respectful human being now earns people applause.
@TROUBLE__BEING@FraeRally@realdebby10 Must she want the same circumstances her mother had just because she was born into them? Her parents' financial situation is not a life sentence, and her mother's relationship choices do not have to become hers.
@BwoyPhreshGh@FraeRally@realdebby10 No one is having anyone struggle. Adults are adults because we can think for ourselves. You don't have to meet her criteria, just go to someone who will take you as is and you'll still have several options.
@KaroroMitchelle Exactly. Unmet needs may explain relationship dissatisfaction, but they never justify betrayal; faithfulness is a choice, not a reward.
@Thexmornd@eddie_wrt 2. Just because women often ignore catcalling and keep walking doesn’t mean it’s acceptable. She’s bringing attention to it, not asking for a medal for surviving it. You’re making a very strong case for why some thoughts should remain unspoken.
@Thexmornd@eddie_wrt 1. What exactly did you expect her to do? Turn around and fight a group of men, only for people like you to turn around and tell her she’s no match for them physically? She chose not to escalate the situation, and she’s now speaking about an experience women go through every day.
@WaMburu34366@Shee_Astro they say biologically not due to patriarchal bullshit. not only are women the carries of the female lineage because of the mitochondrial DNA but sons (your fake “lineage” carriers) carry less of the father’s DNA so even your sons carry more of the maternal DNA than yours 😂
@Wizarab10 3. You expect a stranger to protect your marriage from you, while you are the very person who promised to protect it.
If another woman has to remind you that you are married, your problem was never her lack of accountability. It was your lack of commitment.
@Wizarab10 1. So let me get this straight: you expect a woman to hold YOU accountable for the vows YOU made to YOUR wife? You expect a woman who owes your marriage nothing to enforce the boundaries you voluntarily promised your wife you would maintain?
@Wizarab10 2. A woman can be wrong for knowingly entertaining a married man, but she is not your wife’s appointed security guard, and she is not responsible for keeping you faithful. Why are you outsourcing your self - control to another woman?