A man is going to be who he is, no matter what you bring to him. You can be beautiful, solid, have your own, carry yourself right and still end up dealing with somebody who just not built to handle you. You can’t love a man into acting right or upgrade his mindset by being a better woman.
A lustful, cheating, lying man really will ruin every dream u had for yourself & your family down to the smallest details. You won’t even notice it until u start too feel like your in a one sided relationship building something with someone that’s missing so many pieces bc of em.
This is what the original Cheetah Girls looked like btw… you are not wrong for feeling like it’s been white washed. Not even Dorinda was white, she was Japanese and AA and even the Hispanic characters were Afro-Latina. Disney IS playing in our faces
Never have a baby for a man. It doesn’t matter how much he begs. If you aren’t enthusiastically ready to be a mom, guard your womb. You’re at the whim of a man’s integrity and interest, and if he changes his mind, that child is still YOURS and deserves the best care.
Men are naturally selfish and that’s why nothing holds them back, Not love,not marriage,not kids,not family!Nothing! That selfishness is what i want us to learn my dear ladies, Please be selfish and stay selfish.