@RamonaRyderNY This is exactly why I never tell them exactly where I’m staying until ~an hour before the appointment. Tho it sounds like that wouldn’t have mattered in this case. It’s not only about my comfort level but also about privacy for other clients who might visit me while I’m there.
They can take our passports, deny us healthcare, ban us from sports, mock us, degrade us, and try to erase us from our own history. But they can NEVER stop us from being BRAVE and BEAUTIFUL. We ARE. Past. Present. Future. RESIST, LOVE YOURSELF, and never EVER give up.
@alcolestudios If I can afford to help a friend financially, I give money as a gift rather than a loan. One exception is for trusted friends who need to make a short term investment that is guaranteed to pay off, in which case we would have negotiated a short timeline for return of the funds.
Alan Selby (1929–2004), founder of Mr. S Leather in London and dubbed "the Mayor of Folsom Street," moved to SF in the late 1970s. He raised over $1M for the AEF through the successful events he produced. Selby passed away 20 years ago on May 2nd 2004. 📸 Efrain J. Gonzalez
One of the coolest things I do is help people learn how to take a fist without needing to use any substances. I love being someone���s companion on that journey because the outcome is so incredibly rewarding. ❤️
If you’re in SF and trying to learn how to get FF’d without drugs after previously relying on them, my DMs are open. This is an area of my practice that I am actively developing and I have some sponsored sessions available for locals.
@MistressBlunt 10,000% more, especially if we are including the ability to use hashtags in not being shadowbanned. The years before Twitter banned us from hashtagging were the most profitable in my whole career. I picked up big international clients.
@KINK3Ddesigns keychain on my wallet! I love having it in my hands every time I pay for something & it’s especially fun to plop on the counter at a gay bar 🥰😇
@Buck_Harder Just because we weren’t alive to witness that loss in real-time doesn’t mean we don’t intimately feel the effects of it. Most of our elders are dead. They should be here. I feel that loss every single day. I agree that there is a generational/knowledge gap but we know why.
@xMochaPuffx I understand. Going through something similar and it really hurts. And it is exactly like grieving a death because he destroyed something that can never be rebuilt. The love and trust is dead. His actions did that and it can’t be undone.
@MysticCosplayVA@toplesscapo_ Do you feel this way about every other type of work or is this just a special whorephobic take reserved especially for sex workers??