Gonna be switching my more vanilla re-tweets over to my otherwise unutilized AD account @MiaDiCringioAD
So this account will return to abdl stuff, pamp posting, and the sorts, yall want to see my tastes in normie stuff, follow me there
Also I guess my folks weren't too far off about letting the devil into my soul lol
If you want to consider my beliefs being a mix of Lutheran and pagan stuffs, being that. Which I'm pretty sure they would; but those were recent developments; so, completely unrelated 😝
Not to family*
My partner and I are now happily in a throuple with our other lovely girlfriend for the past 9 months, and they're both the best I could ask for in my opinion haha
I moved in with my partner @AlexDaTrainGal this year and have been doing a lot better as a result~
became my partner a month later; when I finally mustered the strength to tell them how I felt. And despite a couple bumps in our relationship, we're still kicking strong, 2.5 years later.
And last year I realized I was both enby and poly (not coming out for either of those tho)
all kicked off from. We broke up 3 months later, and honestly it was for the best. Aside from the reasons I mentioned above, we ended up having weekly arguments that led both of us to tears regularly, and we've just remained acquaintances since.
My friend who introduced us,
appearances sake. But it's hard, knowing that most of the good times I had with my cousins, my extended family as a whole, is all to be relegated to memory; and all over something that shouldn't be so nearly as big of an issue.
As for my relationship with my boyfriend, that it
My dad has at least tried to apologize, and wants to get to know my partner, but refuses to acknowledge my new name, and my partner wants nothing to do with him as a result of all the trauma they've had to help me through. I try to keep a peaceable but low-contact now, just for
them for a family gathering, attempting to smooth things over, but they were intent on icing me out for the most part.
My mom, aunts and uncles have mostly moved on, but never apologized, just act like nothing happened. Deadname, refuse to acknowledge my partners. Which... ugh.
of the family themselves, being much more progressive, and one being an ardent socialist (Gods have mercy on his homelife, having to have grown up with the most MAGA parents and grandparents in the family)
I hadn't seen most of my extended family since July 2024; where I joined
She also apologized a few weeks after, but again the scars were there. And I can't look at any of my family the same.
Out of my entire extended family, the only ones that were accepting of me were one of my first cousins, and a second cousin; both of whom are rather black sheep
...that was more to rub salt in the wound, since I was already enough of a disappointment to him.
He apologized, a few weeks later; but the scars were already there. My mom told her mom, and she texted me basically saying she didn't want to have me around the family...
"If you think you're going to marry him, or any other guy. Then don't expect any of us to be there, or give you our blessing!"
That fucking broke me and I just ended up spending the rest of the night crying.
I told my dad the day after, that I was trans as well, but
Hour and a half of shouting and crying from my folks, and crying from myself, because I had basically shut down after that point. My mom said I had "no right to call myself a Christian anymore"; I excused myself from the table, and my dad shouted out...
"...you possibly justify such degeneracy?!"
I'd been preparing for questions like that, so I explained how I believed one could be both Christian and Queer *gasp*, but they didn't want to hear it, said I had let the devil enter my soul, and that they're "incredibly disappointed"
"my boyfriend, why wouldn't I bring him around?!"
And my folks were just shocked, and immediately shit hit the fan. They told me not to say stuff like that, and that if I was dealing with "Homosexual desires" they could get me in touch with someone to fix that. And, "How could
...and that people would get the wrong idea about us. (because apparently, despite being incredibly flamboyent both before and after I came to terms with myself, sexuality and gender-wise; people thought I was straight as a signpost.)
And I got heated and said "He's...
My folks and extended family knew that he and I were good friends, I'd bring him around my grandparents' place and they got along well...
But, in July 2023; my folks and I were having dinner. And mentioned how they thought I was bringing him around too much...
We remained relatively steady... Although the death knell for our relationship was me realizing I was trans, (while he was very much gay...), and my shift towards a more progressive political worldview; which led to some heated discussions...
Now that the context is aside lol
Introduced me to this one guy, who thought we'd get along well together. And we did. We hungout online, played games for a few months before we decided to meetup in person. I rented a hotel room, and promptly chickened out of "any activities", but we did have a good time...
I did click well with one guy, and started thinking about taking things seriously. But things didn't work out, and I had my own mental health struggles flaring up after my grandmother passed away right around that time.
However, one of my then-friends (now partner lol)...
My family was gonna be enraged if I brought around anyone other than an girl, that strictly they approved of.
And yet, I wanted to experiment with myself, truly know who I was.
So, I tried finding people on various sites, and things just never played out for a good while