I’m not no little ass girl that gets excited to play house, have sex & be toxic with a nigga, I like grown ass men who know how to lead, get money & take care of home💯 y’all can have them niggas still chasing a image & fw multiple different bitches 🥱.
All relationships can survive mistakes, but they cannot survive patterns. Repeated behavior isn't a mistake, it's a decision, apologies lose meaning when the actions never change.
I reallyyyyy cannot be with somebody who’s dismissive of my feelings ! I understand you may not agree, understand or that it may not even be of the same importance to you BUT… do NOT be dismissive of whatever it is I’m feeling ! That’s a HUGE pet peeve !
I’ve worn my heart on my sleeve my whole life. Tried to communicate, explain my feelings, hold people accountable. Created drama trying to make people SEE me. But most people don’t care. Your pain is inconvenient. So now? I just quietly see what it is and move accordingly.
I created “drama” by speaking up. By saying “this hurt me” or “you can’t treat me like that.” And people acted like I was the problem. “You’re too sensitive.” “You’re overreacting.” “Why do you always start something?”.
My cousin said his girl always says no when he asks her if she needs anything.
I'm like bro, you can NEVER ask an independent woman if there's anything she needs you to do for her. Her answer will ALWAYS be NO (even if there is), because her pride and her self-reliance is ALL she knows. So if you want to do something for her, you have to just DO IT. It will show your initiative, and it will make her more comfortable with the idea of depending on you.
Can’t nobody ever gaslight me into thinking I’m a bad person. I have my ways & I have my days, but I’m solid & my love is real & genuine every step of the way.
Girl stop stressing about what he is doing. Let that man live his life, text who he wants to and make his choices. If he is okay with messing it up then he is not meant for you and that’s okay. Stop losing your mind over things you can't control