i allocated so much importance to people who are largely inconsequential now. i'm humbled by what i thought i knew. it's almost a relief that nobody is mine. people can be encountered and embraced, but they can't be possessed. the thought of it, acknowledging it, so freeing .
I don’t separate love from how I’m treated. If I constantly feel neglected, dismissed or unsupported, the love dies naturally. Bc in my mind real love naturally produces intentional behavior.
@ysuckme Never let somebody get so comfortable they start thinking your light came from them.
You were already becoming before they met you.
They experienced the wave… they didn’t create the ocean.
if you're a woman, please lean into your softness more often. allow yourself to be soft. you don't have to be a phuma silwe all the time, it's about balance. be receptive, be open. be calm. allow yourself to be iqanda le universe. step out of your masculine a bit.