@YoyloPUA i’ll be honest i’m still confused. i see ppl on here go out for ‘daygame sessions’ all the time. are they not doing the former? if not, then what are they doing? just walking out of there house and being happy and social? and letting it happen how it happens without overthinking?
So what’s the strategy for daygame? Do i walk around the city and try to approach as many of the cute girls i see? or is it more so about trying to find ‘natural ways’ of going up to them
I deleted all the dating apps thinking me and my girl were gonna be exclusive. i was ready for it to happen
Now im left without her, or the apps. I might use this as an opportunity to learn cold approach.
Another example: let’s say i’m walking down a street and there’s a cute girl walking past me. this all happens quickly. what’s the play? and how do i stop her if she doesn’t make eye contact? a little wave? or do i have to turn around and catch up with her. seems odd…
For example i see a cute girl around the corner, maybe she’s walking in the other direction
Do i spend some time to try & find a natural way to cross paths? or just get in her proximity and either make eye contact or say something to her. aka stop her as soon as possible.
I deleted all the dating apps thinking me and my girl were gonna be exclusive. i was ready for it to happen
Now im left without her, or the apps. I might use this as an opportunity to learn cold approach.
I have never cold approached anyone in my life before. i’m terrified of the idea, but willing to desensitize myself to it and do it.
I can picture myself getting good at it with time. i’m optimistic
I need a coach though to get me off my feet. if anyone has any recommendations!
I was able to get new lay, and one that i was proud of, each month on the apps.
I saw incredible growth on there but i think it’s time to really step outside my comfort zone and level up even more.
I can use this negative as a positive
@angeldevenganza@realplayingfire an example of this could be:
‘reminds me of myself when i’m at the beach’
followed by a visual of us on the beach together
‘you better not flash me from under the towel when no one’s looking’
then keep vibing or seed the date
@angeldevenganza@realplayingfire good call cuz it comes off as him rewarding her for just existing. not good
i’d probably look to do a thread change at this point to make it fun for me. wherever my mind was at the time i would relate to her being wild
@kxnakxns being honest with myself, i always wanted to settle down with her. but i wanted to go thru my ‘player phase’ first
first time ever i got to experience it & i knew deep down its what i wanted to do before settling
Such a shitty past few days for me.
Friday: in person chat with my girl, didn’t move her. she doesn’t wanna see me any more. my heart still hurts.
Saturday: D1 with catfish
Sunday: Flaked on
Monday: Flaked on
Tried distracting myself, but even that didn’t work.
Damn, i’m in the dog house again.
My girl got info that im on the dating apps and actively messaging other girls. Not sure who told her. But wow.
Things were starting to reach a high point and i genuinely wanted to make her my gf. I started planning it out
I was only able to reach an abundance of cute girls, but not necessarily ones i would wanna wife up.
I was able to get to the point where i would go on 3 or 4 dates a month, and bang at least one of them.
But i guess i still haven’t reached true abundance yet. more work to do.
It can leave you heartbroken. angry. sad. lonely. confused
One of the most powerful things in life are the emotional bonds we create with the opposite sex. am i wrong?
I think it’s a valuable asset to be able to detach urself from them though, and that comes from true abundance