low self-esteem is poison to romance. when someone tells you they donโt deserve your love, believe them. take the words at face value and exit the fantasy of โhealingโ them into intimacy. people who turn their brokenness into an identity will live up to it. religiously....
Heavy on Iโm not even mad at you. Thatโs just who you are. Thatโs your character. Youโll never change. Be that, but I wonโt ever deal with it again.