@Adhekunbi At your age this is what you are doing in front of camera like a 12 years old girl you are supposed to be cautioning,when your mates are their husbands house trying to figure things out with their families.
@jon_d_doe Happy birthday in advance to your jewel of inestimable value. May God continue to be with her and what she has done and she still doing for the family. Amen!
@AffluenceofYen@Thebiglade Imagine nonsense talk! Are you to pick a man or man should even show you mercy by picking you?
With that your dry chest like my own!
@kenkenlewu Logically speaking,when a woman is guilty,she reacts recklessly to allegations without minding the aftermath of her actions!
A woman can cry out her eyes manipulatively to make the society believe her if she truly guilty. No gender shed crocodile tears like that gender.
@Patiencekm0@kenkenlewu Keep quiet there,if it's your fellow gender, they will they will do worst than he did. Women react so quickly to Allegations only if they are guilty and she has confirmed his allegations to be true by reacting this way. Who no fear woman na him sabi.
@TheLowkeyMummy@kenkenlewu You and your gender with accountability issue.
If it were to be a reverse case, won't the wife ask how he got a job through a female boss may be still single for his wife?
This is the face of the old foolish Islamic Imam preaching division.
This type of characters are supposed to be road cleaners, not a religious leaders.
A new Nigeria is possible.with OK βοΈ
I don't care how much weight you can lift, or how fine your figure of a six-pack is or how nice the car is, if you can't beat lust, you are a weak man.
If you can't beat sleeping with anything you see, you are a weak mam.
HeartMattaz
As much as I am an advocate of cohabitation before marriage, it's actually not as easy as I may have made it seem.
At first, the man will be excited because he has seen free toto (for those who are having sex).
Then, after doing multiple rounds almost every day, he starts to feel 'caged' and may be looking for excuses to send the lady away.
His friends cannot visit him like they used to, and he will also not have all those sneaky links in his house because you're occupying their space.
I felt the same way too when I started cohabiting with my wife right from my 200-level year.
Imagine two young people living together, having frequent sex, and doing things together like going to school and making sure that we are looking out for each other.
You'll feel choked.
The only break that we had was during holidays when school was closed for the semester or session.
But after the first year, it became part of us and we got used to it. And that's how we lived together until we graduated from school and continued during NYSC.
Today, we are married.
And we have been living together as husband and wife for almost 20 years, and our cohabitation during our dating years made settling down as husband and wife much easier. But it still did not prevent us from fighting.
Our first 5 years of marriage were still very tough. However, those fights were not because of our not understanding each other or knowing our flaws.
We already went past that stage.
They were mostly because of other things caused by me.
I married at the young age of 29, and most of my close friends were still single and 'balling'.
My wife wanted me to start acting like a married man, but I wanted to continue acting like a 'Married Bachelor'.
She had settled in faster as a married woman, but my eyes were still wandering (still are, but not as much).
So, for you young people who are planning to cohabit or already cohabiting, you'd most likely experience the same things.
If you persevere, you'll overcome it.
If you love your girlfriend, you'll never get tired of her toto, and you'll always appreciate her presence around you.
Remember, it's that same toto that you'd be fucking for the rest of your life if you marry her.
And it's that same person that you'd be seeing for the rest of your life if you marry her.
Cross that hurdle now, so that marriage will not be like a battlefield for you in your early years. Your quarrels will not lead to her running away to her father's house or threatening divorce at the slightest quarrel.
I hope you understand.
End.
Some people, for six months or more now:
1. They have not kissed anyone
2. They have not cuddled anyone
3. They have not slept with anyone in the same bed
4. They have not missed anyone, or someone missing them
5. They have not had sex
6. They have not reached orgasm or released kunu/akamu
7. No special moments. No memory.
8. They have not received any romantic/love/erotic message or sent one to someone.
9. They are alone.
10. They want love, but they are tired of being taken for granted.
HeartMattaz