The women who possess this particular faculty of seeing a man's unfinished architecture before he's even laid the foundation have almost universally been through something that stripped them down to their own studs first. you cannot develop that kind of vision without having been demolished and rebuilt at least once because that is what they are recognizing in you, their own process mirrored back in another body
Who said no professional photographer was hired? The pictures shared are those taken by phones while the professional ones are still currently under editing.
In my next event, I won’t hire you. This is a bad way to peach your business.
Dear thirsty men who think with their penises, this is for you:
Close up shot of cleavages is one of the biggest scams you will face in your lifetime. Very few things will mislead you more than that common scam.
Most people who want a billion dollars are thinking about the money.
But the ones who actually get there were thinking about something else entirely.
They were thinking about the problem.
The scale of it. The number of people stuck in it. The fact that nobody had solved it well enough yet.
That's the real pattern, and it almost never looks like "I'm going to build a billion dollar company."
It looks like "this thing is broken and it's bothering me."
So they fix it for ten people.
Then a hundred.
Then they can't stop because the problem keeps pulling them forward.
The money shows up later, almost like a side effect.
Most people get this backwards.
They start with the outcome they want and work back to find a problem to match it.
But you can feel that kind of company.
It's hollow at the center.
The ones that last, the ones that actually scale, they started with something real.
Something the founder couldn't leave alone.
If you want to build something big, don't start by asking how to make a billion dollars.
Start by asking what you would fix even if nobody paid you.
That question will take you further than most business plans ever will.
The Nigerian government has done something impressive.
They have convinced millions of people that struggling to eat, struggling to pay rent and struggling to survive is a personal failure instead of an economic one.
That's genius.
This gentleman captures everything you need to know about the latest fabricated trillionaire in town.
The most successful capitalist in history doesn't have the capital to continue running the business that’s made him the richest man in the world, so he turns to a Ponzi scheme.
God honors his favorites by crushing them, drops the whole insufferable wretched weight of purpose on their spines until they either snap into shape or snap entirely. the unburdened, those buoyant grinning vapid little phantoms drifting through their own lives without a single crushing thing to carry, they are forgotten
Spent the past few days off the internet with my shoes off, physically touching grass in the East African wilderness.
P.s: The Allen's Swamp monkey on my shoulder in the first photo is apparently named 'Super Mario'. No idea why, but he was a lot of fun.
Back to real life👋🏾
You are deeply and dearly loved by God.
He is excited at the possibilities of who you are.
And He is constantly customizing your path of discovery to Him.
Each day you spend knowing Him is a delight.
He is a Father who loves leaving breadcrumbs - every trail an adventure and every twist a chance to show his kindness and mercy.
Very good submission!
I’ll also pay good money to read a paper that tells me why Nigerian Women are so obsessed with ‘Money’ and why (given their obsession), they don’t learn to make it themselves.
That was not the first time she showed you that she does not GAF about you
But that was the first time you saw it - and accepted what you saw.
She was honest with you the whole time.
A queen
I finally understand what Machiavelli meant when he said, “Never play fair in a game where others cheat.” It doesn’t mean become evil. It means stop being naive. Stop bringing honesty to people who study manipulation, stop giving access to people who weaponize closeness, and stop expecting clean hands from people who already showed you they’ll throw dirt. Sometimes wisdom is not revenge. Sometimes wisdom is learning the rules of the room before the room uses your goodness against you.
This gender war thing is actually disgusting. You speak well about your partner as a man and fellow men come for you. They do not want you speaking positively about women. In their understanding, women are vile creatures and men should treat them as such.
On the other hand, if you’re a woman and you speak well about your partner, fellow women come for you. “Men are bad. Men are evil. Men are incapable of good.”, they wail. Meanwhile, in real life, men and women are falling in love, getting married, raising children and generally getting on with life.
Anyway, I have made it a point of duty to approach gender issues from a balanced and nuanced perspective. Both genders are capable of good. Both are capable of terrible things. Both possess strengths. Both possess flaws. Expecting me to pile onto one gender to make the other happy is akin to expecting Tinubu to improve the country because the citizens are complaining.
I mostly stopped thinking about things and my life got dramatically better. thats embarrassing to admit but its the fucking truth. i used to build these elaborate mental frameworks for every decision, map out every outcome, then second guess the map, then second guess the second guess, and by the time i was done id missed the moment entirely, or settled on the worst option because it had the most research behind it. now someone asks me something and if the answer comes fast i trust it
There exists a rare breed of men who are extraordinarily dangerous, those who can switch their obsession at will. They immerse themselves in learning as though they will never need to apply it, then instantly shift into execution as though they will never need to learn again.
Imma keep repeating important lines, regardless of how sick everyone gets of them.
“A cursed fact of the world is that the most important life lessons you learn are the hardest to communicate to others because they always sound like clichés.” — Nabeel Qureshi