There is not a woman alive who isn’t directly or indirectly, in a subtle or the most obvious way trying to bring a King to his knees.
Some of them just give up in the process and later enjoy that which they were always supposed to enjoy as the Queen.
While some eventually ruin themselves in the process and are demoted from being a Queen to a nuisance.
What women call nonchalance is not even the absence of acts of love on the guy’s part.
It is the absence of the desired emotional state when you do those acts.
You can absolutely be committed to your woman and to taking care of her and still be accused of nonchalance.
They don’t just want you to be kind to them, they want you obsessed and needy, and therefore unable to walk away from them even when they misbehave.
This is your greatest leverage as a man, and their greatest fear (the fear of abandonment).
This is why they are constantly playing mind games and shit tests with you.
They want to bring you to that point of neediness.
Your prerogative then as a man isn’t to not love your woman (in extending acts kindness towards her)
It is to retain your sovereignty while loving her.
It is to be levelheaded always because you know you play the role not just of lover but of leader within the relationship tasked with enforcing discipline and maintaining boundaries.
And how do you retain your sovereignty as a man in love?
By preserving your power to walk away.
At any point that you lose this power, you cross the line from nonchalant to chalant/simp.
And this is what they want.
This is the asymmetry that they are trying to orchestrate.
To bring the king to his knees.
⚠️ New "IronWorm" supply-chain attack: 30+ npm packages from @ asteroiddao shipped a malicious Rust binary firing on preinstall.
It sweeps 86 env vars + 20 credential files (AWS, GCP, Vault, npm, plus AI keys like Anthropic & OpenAI), hits Exodus wallets, hides behind an eBPF rootkit, and beacons over Tor. Self-propagates via npm Trusted Publishing OIDC, with backdated commits faked as claude/dependabot/renovate.
Someone hid a self-replicating worm inside 37 npm packages.
Written in Rust.
Hidden behind an eBPF kernel rootkit.
Talking to its operator over Tor.
It steals 86 environment variables.
AWS keys. GCP keys. Vault secrets. Kubernetes tokens.
Your Anthropic API key. Your OpenAI key.
Your Exodus wallet seed phrase.
Then it uses your own npm credentials to republish itself into your packages.
So your code infects the next developer.
Who infects the next one.
The commits were backdated up to 13 years.
The commit author name was “claude.”
The malware named itself after the AI to hide in plain sight.
The attacker also left their own wallet recovery phrase in the debug data.
Nobody is having a good day.
Check your preinstall hooks.
Most modern women that are currently in their 20s and don’t value what they have at the moment will definitely become wiser in their 30s.
Even that Joy babe sef learnt the hard way, no woman is suddenly wise in her 30s, they were all once highly rebellious in their 20s. 🤣
You know what’s funny about relationship discourse?
After a certain age, people will revert to the advice their parents and grandparents gave them on marriage and relationships 😂
This is the same advice they opposed throughout their 20s and 30s—life has a funny way of playing out.
I have been saying this, most of you believe you are with a “feminine” woman because you have never been financially incapacitated since you met her and during the dating phase.
And then you proceed to marry her with the believe that she is truly a feminine woman.
Don’t be shocked when you later discover that you married a full blown Nigerian Feminist when you later experience financial downtimes in marriage.
Many men who think they are loved unconditionally are merely fooling themselves. They get to know the true colour of who they marry when they lose their sources of income. This is one of many realities men must embrace and protect their source of income every well.
The modern Nigerian women want a traditional man that helps with house chores, cooks and worship the floor they walk on while fully providing simultaneously.
If you made a mistake marrying this type of a woman because you were in love and there are no kids between you both yet, your life is still redeemable.
But once kids come in the picture, you have just become a certified slave to a modern woman who is of course a Nigerian feminist, a feminist of convenience.
At this point, only God can save you.
Marriage has never been financially beneficial to any man, except of course he is married to a smart woman who is also passionate about making money and never threatened by his financial success on the long run.
The day your wife starts telling you things like “I know I will see your true color when money comes”, just know you have married wrongly.
You don’t have to believe me, but time will be the judge.
As a man, becoming a millionaire should come first before marriage.
It’s relatively easy to build wealth alone than building it with wife and kids.
Your N250k salary only needs you waiting for Five years to make you touch millions.
Just invest N50k of it monthly for 5yrs. The odd favors you more.
This reminds me of an ex that once said I used to sing for her when we just met but I have stopped doing that, while a lot of women are on this table, I am yet to meet a woman who says “You used to do xyz for me when we just met, is there anything I am doing or I have done that’s made you to stop doing xyz for me so I can work on it?
Even though we know they only like to be on the receiving end and it’s always all about what you can do for them, and not what they can do for you.
If you truly understand a woman’s nature, you might consider falling in love a stressful adventure.
1. Women are often more misogynistic than men. Nobody places women on a lower pedestal quite like women themselves. For example, isn't it funny that when a woman wants to insult a man, she'll say, "You're behaving like a woman"?
2. Women sexualize themselves more than they accuse men of sexualizing them. Social media is perhaps the clearest example of this. Many women willingly post highly suggestive photos and videos, place a strong emphasis on their bum bum and boobs, and often compete for attention using sex appeal.
3. The primary reason many women go into relationships and marriages is for a man's provision. For them, it's often about security and survival before anything else. We've all heard women say, "If I can do all this for myself, why do I need a man?" The wealthier a woman becomes, the more likely she is to feel she doesn't need a man.
The main thing many men bring to a relationship is provision, which is why some women begin to resent their partners when they can no longer meet their financial or provider responsibilities.
4. A woman will do everything to make you less masculine and then end up hating you for it because she will eventually see you as weak.
"I love a man who shows his emotions. It's okay to cry."
"I love a man who lets me into the challenges he's going through. I want to hear him complain. I will always be there for him."
Women often say they want emotional vulnerability from men, yet many are less attracted to men who display certain forms of vulnerability.
Do not be deceived. The day you lose your masculinity before a woman is the day she may begin to resent you and make you pay for it.
5. The worst set of superiors to work under are often women. In fact, I can bet that many women today would rather work under a male boss. Woman-to-woman relationships rarely last because they tend to see through each other's deceit and shenanigans.
There are many women today who would rather have male friends than keep other women as close friends.
6. You can do everything for a woman, but the day you wrong her, or the moment the relationship goes south, she suddenly forgets every good thing you ever did. All she remembers is what she did for you, what you didn't do for her, and every mistake you made along the way.
7. In dating, many women still expect traditional treatment while preferring modern relationship dynamics in other areas. A man should open the car door for his woman, provide for her, and never suggest a 50/50 arrangement. He should kneel down to propose. Yet, the moment you mention that a woman should cook or wash clothes for her man, it becomes a third world war.
Many women expect men to uphold traditional standards while embracing modern feminist values for themselves. Even in relationships, a man is expected to provide, love, care for, pamper, and be intentional about his woman, while the woman remains his equal and may refuse to take on traditional responsibilities such as cooking for him.
A man is expected to demonstrate his intentionality from the very first day he meets a woman, but a woman is often told to wait until she is properly wifed before she starts performing "wifey" duties.
8. Everything women love and admire romantically is usually something they envision being done for them.
"I'm so big on gifts and surprises."
Meanwhile, it's all about receiving them, not giving them. 😂😂😂
9. A woman can never effectively raise a boy child.
10. Women expect men to read signals and hints, then get frustrated when those hints are missed.
One of the reasons many women don't shoot their shot at men isn't necessarily because of a fear of rejection, as they often make us believe. It's because they know that once they make the first move, they lose the bargaining power.
You can't shoot your shot at a man and then, two weeks later, start billing him or suddenly remember that you haven't eaten all day. 😂
@Prezain_LJ I took my time and read through this, and not a single lie detected!
Only years experience with women scan expose you to this level of knowledge.
Complacency.
Some persons become complacent & take their partners for granted for mainly two reasons.
1. They’ve finally gotten into the relationship, so they stop putting in the same effort they once did. The consistency, intentionality, and little things that got them there slowly disappear.
2. They become convinced their partner can never leave, so they start treating them unfairly, expecting them to tolerate everything & stay regardless.
The reality?
Not every day in a relationship will feel the same. There’ll be highs, lows, busy days, stressful moments, and periods where life gets in the way.
But regardless of how you feel, be intentional. Keep showing up. Keep choosing your partner. Keep watering what you want to keep alive.
A plant that’s not watered daily doesn’t die overnight. It dies gradually.
Relationships are no different.
When a narcissistic woman commits an offense that she knows you would not forgive her for, be sure that she is not scared of losing you at that instant.
She is only scared of you telling the truth first, and that is why she is very quick to call whoever cares to listen to her lies and then try to damage your reputation without ever telling the offense she committed.
It’s not in a woman’s nature to continue loving you after you forgive her for what she knows she shouldn’t be forgiven for.
If you don’t believe me, please experiment with yourself and let time be the judge.
When you catch your woman doing what she knows you are not supposed to catch her doing, please, do not forgive her, it doesn’t even have to be cheating.
She would only show you a temporary remorse, but after the situation is calm and everywhere looks good, she would later secretly resent you for being smart enough to catch her in the first place.
I know some men like to say “I’m dating to marry” and they love to stick their words but make sure disrespect is one of your top redflags that you don’t have to wait till a woman cheat before you fling her away .