Everybody ain’t gonna love you, everybody doesn’t see you heart how God does, your intention may be misunderstood but as long as you know you mean we’ll ALL IS WELL 🤲
Toxic people will focus on your boundaries instead of their disrespect in order to play the victim and make you the aggressive villain in their story. Remember, they are aggressive when they try to cross your boundaries, you are assertive when you enforce your boundaries.
Manipulation is when they always mess with your mind by blaming you for reacting to their toxic behaviour, but never discuss their disrespect that triggered you.
Sometimes I feel weird explaining to somebody how inconsiderate they were in a situation. It’s like if you didn’t feel yourself wilding, idk what’s left to say
I be in my feelings over principles. I just expect people to be solid and loyal like me so when people aren’t, I get offended and take it personal. I’m still learning not to, but I’m just passionate about principles and loyalty.