a customer couldn't decide between two desserts and her boyfriend said “just get both, it’s your day” and I was like "omg is it your birthday??’ and she said” no, he says that every day”
yeah breakups hurt, but have you ever been a super talkative, enthusiastic person but slowly over the years and after trauma you watch yourself become more quieter and quieter to the point where that enthusiastic bubbly person just isn't who you are anymore?