FUN FACT: Girls actually will suffer unearthly tragedies and still actually run errands the same day with a smile on their face but if a man's parents divorce when he is 12 he will unleash his wrath on the world for the rest of his life.
I am not one of those people who lets shit slide just because we're close. Actually the closer you are to me the more I expect you to know better. Being close to somebody should make you more considerate of them not more comfortable disrespecting them
turns out women get more autoimmune diseases from suppressed anger and trauma.. so basically every time you don't flip a table, your immune system takes a hit. moral of the story? throw the fuckin chair girl. it's preventative medicine
Toxic people thrive on conflict. They want you defending yourself, explaining yourself, reacting to every little thing they throw at you. That's how they keep control. The power is in learning to disengage completely. Stop feeding their chaos. They can't play the game if you're no longer on the field.