I would agree with your assessment.
But consent is not consent if it’s done under fraud and deception.
Do you know in the state of California and many other states even if you “consent” to strangulation during sex the law does not recognize your consent. It is not a viable defense. California law says you cannot consent to something that could cause you significant harm.
@hey_im_babe If a man was smart, he would marry a physical therapist.
When he has something that hurts, at least he can get it fixed for free. Well, almost free. 👆🏼😂
@heckyessica It comes down to a lack of respect. When people share things privately those things need to stay private. It’s just basic human decency.
Unfortunately, many don’t care any longer about how it might affect someone else. Especially if they’re going through a difficult time.
There is nothing wrong with vanilla sex. A very close friend went through significant strangling incidents during sex. She’s no longer in this relationship, but she has said all she really longed for was vanilla sex. And maybe an orgasm. But the malignant narcissist who was a sexual predator, could not deliver that.
Hats off to you guys!
@FeralHeather That’s not all you’ve accomplished and that’s not all you’ve walked through!
But this does call for a BIG congratulations and an awesome high five!!!
@thatbishElle She’s OK the best she can be. She’s working through all of this. She’s the sweetest woman you would ever meet. Thanks for considering her well-being.