Respectfully, I don't go above & beyond for people no more. I meet you as far as you meet me. I speak to you as much as you speak to me. I include you as much as you include me.
I'm done being extra.
Unhealed trauma makes you hold onto people and tolerate a lot of sh*t you don't deserve because you don't want to feel alone. Healing makes you realize some people don't deserve to be in your life – no matter how much you love them.
Unfortunately, when it comes to me, EVERYTHING IS THAT DEEP! Everything IS that serious. & yes I do take EVERYTHING PERSONAL. Find somebody else to play with!
Your partner coming to you about something you’ve done wrong isn’t a personal attack. It’s a healthy sign they value the relationship and want to make it work – it's a heads up. You communicate, you fix it, you stay. That's emotional maturity. That's commitment. That's love.
I’m gonna my man, my man, my man yall to death cause ain’t no way he helped me scrubbed my floors & moved all my shit in while I napped for work. If he wanted to, he fucking would.🤞🏼