Women like sex, too. They’re not de facto victims any time they’re in a voluntary sexual situation, and I wish people would respect women’s agency when it comes to wanting to be sexual, wanting sexual attention, and wanting to share themselves, rather than infantilizing them at any age and refusing to acknowledge and recognize their right to choose who they want to be sexual with.
You would think this would be more obvious and supported given how many women get into sex work (not the oft sketchy industry SW, but OnlyFans which is not pressure-based and it’s purely for them), and how many women will willingly sexualize themselves for attention even when money isn’t involved purely because they want to (nothing wrong with that at all), but it’s still shamed. Even still, grown ass women get infantilized and told they’re helpless victims when it comes to dealing with men they’re attracted to.
I’ve had women anywhere from 18-50 throwing themselves at me for 3 years now, and one thing is clear: they’re every bit as horny and unhinged as men are. People just pretend they don’t see it.
I could tweet “send pussy” and I’d get it. A lot of it. I don’t say that as a flex, or to shame anyone, I say it to reinforce the idea that people are horny and that’s fucking normal. There’s nothing wrong with that. There isn’t always a good guy and a bad guy, there isn’t always a victim in every situation.
I’ve had to leave multiple servers where tons of women were voluntarily sending endless unsolicited nudes and videos to try to get my attention, and make it against the rules and ban people outright to stop it from happening. People like being sexual, nothing wrong with it, just sometimes it’s not wanted from everyone.
Sometimes it’s just horny people being horny, and if you’re shaming that please go look in the mirror. Look at your upbringing, put down your bible, and go get laid. Women like sex, too.
Idk, the narrative around sex and sexuality just needs to change. It’s tired. Women like sex, too.
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