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So Ugo, you came online and told everyone that your wife cheated on you during the marriage. Not only that, you said it happened in your matrimonial home, which was why you divorced her. And almost everyone believed you.

Now your ex-wife has reportedly filed a suit against you for “FALSE AND DEFAMATION PUBLICATIONS”, which simply means she’s accusing you of lying against her, damaging her reputation and character. And also demanding immediate retraction of all your claims.

But instead of standing your ground and presenting evidence to support your claims, you deleted every post where you accused her of cheating and other allegations. If everything you said was truly, why did you delete?

So Ugo, my question is: did your wife actually cheat on you?

Did you truly catch her cheating, or were those accusations made out of anger, spite and bitterness because she moved on peacefully after the divorce?

I mean, you clearly said the divorce had already been finalized, she had been deported to Lagos, and everyone had moved on.

Yet you came online and started fresh drama all over again. Anyone listening would think you just found out about the cheating last week and that the divorce happened only five days ago.

Because let’s be honest, some people, especially after a breakup or divorce, struggle to see their ex move on peacefully, and they feel the need to damage their image or make life difficult for them, especially when that ex proves they can do just fine without them.

Again, DID YOUR EX WIFE CHEAT ON YOU DURING THE MARRIAGE?

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@jon_d_doe No doubt. All 💯💪

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@Ibnuelyas @MojtabaKhameni False

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@netanyahu @grok, translate in English, rumors has it that Iran has Eliminated him. Is that true?

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@itsmearmanii @grok interpret the write up

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@alexottiofr I wish you a very happy birthday your Excellency!
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@alexottiofr Dear Sir, teachers who were meant to retire but got a 5-year FG extension.All documents are in place, medicals done, and 2 years’ leave allowance already paid. However, ASUBEB has not paid their salaries since August. Why should they keep working without pay? Please act urgently

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@alexottiofr Your Excellency, you are a man of your word and a leader for the people.We respectfully appeal to you to intervene in the matter of teachers granted a 5-year FG extension whose salaries have not been paid since August last year by ASUBEB, despite completing all documentation

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@Wizarab10 Yes, let's connect people of God

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@boye4christ2006 Interested

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@AbrahamOkah2 Business and data analyst

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@sironyeka Hi

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@jon_d_doe Great 👍

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This is it for me.

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On proposing to your girlfriend.

I'll say these few things, and you're free to disagree.

First, it's not necessary that you propose again to your girlfriend, asking her to be your wife.

Because once both parents have given their consents & support, it's as good as you proposing to her.

However, if you choose to go a step further to propose to her with a ring, or anything that you so choose; please, do it in a very private manner.

You and your wife-to-be, in a private space.

Then both of you commit your planned marriage to God. You speak words of affirmation & commitment to each other, & make that covenant, in the presence of God.

No one needs to be there.

I see it as a sacred & symbolic act between you and your woman.

It's not when your wife gives your a wine in the public, that you're having a covenant.

It's not when you're in church or mosque, taking your marriage vows, that you're having a covenant.

The marriage is between you and your wife.

Every other persons (including your family, friends, priests, imams, magistrate, lawyers, etc) are witnesses.

If you have noticed, the paying of bride price is done between close knitted families.

It's not usually done in the open.

That should tell you that the bride price payment; however cheap, is a symbolic act, too.

And the return of it, signifies the end of your marriage (traditionally & culturally).

Then, after you have privately proposed to her, both of you can decide to throw a party (if you wish), for family and friends, just to announce it.

Then everyone will merry & wish both of you well.

But what both of you told each other in private, & in the presence of God, should not be heard or witnessed by a third party.

Your wife will not remember everyone, that was at your public show of proposal, neither will you.

You won't even remember what most of them said.

But those few words of affirmation & long-term commitment that you spoke to each other, will never be forgotten.

And God was your witness.

I hope you understand.

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