I can't respect somebody who can take everything I offer. My time, my loyalty, my support, my effort, my peace, and still not value me fr. That's why I started moving different. I'm not perfect, but I know I deserve more than being drained and taken for granted. If love come with stress and constant disrespect, I'd rather be alone. I'm not putting up with anything just to keep somebody in my life.
One thing about me, once I accept that we aren’t meant to be in each other’s lives anymore, I adjust FAST. I don’t keep checking if you miss me. I don’t wonder if you’re talking about me. Life keeps moving and so do I💯
I took myself out the mix for a reason. I needed time to get my life together, keep certain things private, and accept some situations for what they are instead of trying to force different outcomes. The more I pulled back, the clearer everything became. These days I’m staying in my lane, focusing on myself, and putting my energy into the life I’m trying to build. Sometimes stepping away is exactly what you need to move forward.
Nehemiah prayed a powerful prayer: “Lord, give me favor as I go before the king. Put it in his heart to help me.” Think about that. He wasn’t afraid to ask God for success, favor, or to move on someone’s heart on his behalf. Sometimes we think such prayers sound selfish, but they’re not. If you’re going to walk into everything God has for you, you must pray boldly for opportunities, open doors, divine connections, and favor where it’s needed. You weren’t created to live intimidated by your dreams or shrink back from what God placed in your heart. Ask big. Believe big. Expect big.
The truth is, God will strategically place people in your path to help you reach where you’re called people with influence, resources, wisdom, and opportunities. So don’t be afraid to pray: “God, put me on the hearts of the right people. Cause me to stand out for the right reasons. Open doors no man can shut. And place favor on my life that only You can receive the glory for.” God knows how to position the right people in the right places at the right time.
When I say I want a man that can take care of me, I don’t mean financially! I’ve NEVER wanted anybody based off of what they can do for me financially! Only lil’ girls think like that! Take care of my heart, be my peace, love me out loud, caress my mind, nurture my soul... reassure me that WE ALL WE GOT you know...stuff money can’t buy
Let your children see you have fun. Sprinkle it in whenever you can; Sing while you're stuck in traffic, dance when you're cleaning the kitchen and laugh at your own mistakes. Fun doesn't have to be reserved for weekends & vacation. Show your children how to enjoy life even in the mundane routines; they'll watch, learn and do the same.