@SanezMbali We have been telling SA'n men about their traumas and the help they need but we're brushed off as feminists or "I don't need therapy". It's not that there aren't spaces that can provide a safe landing for them but they are hung up on "no homo" or "indoda cries on the inside".
When it was poem day in grade 10 and I (obvs) came unprepared. A friend and I had an idea to translate Adele songs in Sepedi (obvs plagiarism but we didn’t know better).
Anyway, I did Rumour Has It and got published in the school magazine. 😭