I recommend you get as much as you need if you can afford. A chauffeur, a cook, a maid,nanny, another maid & another one!
Women are meant to rest & relax in their matrimonial home. Inba ya zama dole ba bai dace mace tayi aikin gida ba. Aikin gida tsufar da mace yakeyi da wuri.
You should be a good person ONLY bc it’s the right thing to do. You will rarely get reciprocity. You can’t model good behavior in hopes of getting it back. Attempting to do so is manipulation. Having character is a choice, & often a lonely one. Be good bc you are good.