BPD is actually a really sad mental health condition when you think about it. Like a person was put through so much trauma, abuse, neglect, instability, etc., that it literally altered the brain to make a person feel like they are never safe. I feel like my nervous system will always be broken.
Nah. 27-33 aren't your humbling years. They're your awakening years.
So many people misunderstand this phase of life.
That's when you start seeing things clearly. Everything suddenly dawns on you. You realize what you want, what doesn't matter, and how much time you've wasted.
Some people mistake that clarity for failure because they wish they had figured it out earlier.
But if you're determined, you can build more in those few years than you did in your entire early twenties.
Yall need to start being mean to people that are mean to YOU. Stop that bigger person shit.. Release your inner bitches or whatever Natasha Bedingfield said!
I'm not moving on.
I'll give you space and keep my distance for a while, but i'll be here, quietly hoping you find your way back. I made you a promise to love you today tomorrow and forever, and that's not something I say lightly. I still believe our story isn't finished. I believe in us. I'd really give everything up for you. You're my whole heart and happiness.