Antara kesilapan besar isteri is micro-managing suami. Suami buat itu tak kena, buat ini tak kena, tak habis-habis kena marah.
Buat kena marah, tak buat kena marah. Semua tak kena.
The husband literally said “bukan kalau belum ikat lagi means belum boleh buang ke?”
Maksudnya isteri dia pernah tegur/marah bila sampah belum diikat, jangan buang. How is he incompetent? Dia cuma buat benda yang taknak trigger kemarahan isteri lah sekali kena marah juga.
Suami mandi lama pun jadi masalah.
Nafkah suami untuk isteri:
1. Sediakan tempat tinggal di mana isteri bebas untuk mendedahkan auratnya.
2. Sediakan makanan dan minuman sekurang-kurangnya 2 kali sehari.
3. Pakaian yang menutup aurat, termasuk pakaian dalam. Sekurang-kurangnya dua persalinan setahun.
4. Ubat-ubatan
5. Toiletries (tak termasuk skincare)
Semua yang disenaraikan di atas tu, perlulah mengikut kemampuan suami. Dan sekiranya suami dah sediakan semuanya, tidak wajib ke atasnya untuk memberi wang saku / wang nafkah (as per what all those people kecohkan tu).
Wallahualam
Happy 26th Birthday to my wonderful fiancé @starsneedmoon! Sharing your 26th during this holy month of Ramadan is such a blessing. I’m so grateful to Allah for you. I can’t wait for us to fast together next year as husband&wife💝 May your year be full of barakah. 🤍💍
Thank you to my most loving person for making my birthday so special🌷. We searched for hantaran, talked about forever, the ring’s already ours (gambar je tak amik td🥲) From my gf, to my future fiancée & one day my wife👰. Always & forever, sayang💝. Next year one step closer 💌
Adik, this is emotional immaturity disguised as fun’ or ‘spice’. U knw, when stillness feels wrong to u it’s because silence forces u to confront emptiness or insecurity. It’s a sign of internal void. Healthy relationships feel ‘quiet’ because they’re not built on tension