@GlaxUTD@Mrfiawu@dammiedammie35 It doesn't matter if it your first or last date. She just told him where her priorities lie. It says more about her than any conversation ever will.
@Mrfiawu@dammiedammie35 ...it's now up to you as a guy to count the cost and ask yourself if this is what you want to do. At least she wasn't asking for money to make her hair or some dumb shit. She wanted food for her kids so she does not go back home to start making food .
@Mrfiawu@dammiedammie35 I agree. But what just happened was also part of getting to know each other. Her kids are part of the package, so she just wanted to introduce him to the entire package. Some women here let you know upfront that you take care of child minder fee if you want a date.
@Azeezla94999830@dammiedammie35 What just happened tells you more about each other than any conversation ever will. One that the woman would not let his kids starve and secondly that he does not care about her kids. Knowing her situation is part of knowing each other and that's what dating is all about.
@yabaleftonline There is something about ugly girls and anyhow talk, especially the poor ones sitting on a hotel bed paid by some guy and making a video. Her papa dey village dey tap palm wine, she dey here dey yarn apata๐๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝ
@Dani385721@dammiedammie35 And you think single ladies are better? These single mothers are thinking about their kids.Mem come and go,their kids remain. At least they are not asking for iPhone or stuff ๐
@MrChimal1@dammiedammie35 Probably not on the first date...but the real question is would she be spending that time on the date cooking for her kids ,the answer is yes. So if you are taking that time, how do you want the kids to eat? Communication is key though.she old have given him a headsup
@Mrfiawu@dammiedammie35 When you date a single mother, you date her kids too. It all comes with the package. Over here you might want to throw in a few for the minder too. As a man on that adventure,you just need to count the cost!
@cominatchya2@lfghiro But that's not the point here...This isn't right. It doesn't matter if it was a black or white girl being assaulted. What was done in the 60 wasn't right and it isn't right today.Period!