The healer also needs healing. The planner also needs surprises. The giver also needs to receive. The thoughtful also needs to be thought of. The considerate also needs to be considered.
maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. it’s about who’s willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you.
My shyness has this exception where if someone is as shy/uncomfortable as I am or even more, I suddenly develop another personality that's extremely extroverted just to save the other person.
and suddenly i became the person who takes forever to reply, likes to be alone, will ghost you, doesn’t care about anything, and will not care if we fade away