Most self-help talks to you like you’re fragile.
I don’t.
I talk about people as they are: vain, frightened, horny, ambitious, loyal, treacherous, generous, pathetic, magnificent.
Human psychology. Discipline. Money. Sex. Status. Betrayal. Self-command.
No therapy shit.
@archie_lochie Divest from the concept of sin.
Think about it in terms of “expedient” or “inexpedient.” Or “wise” and “unwise.”
Not every urge has to be satisfied, always. This isn’t a consequence-free universe.
Everyone can be an asshole under the right conditions. Do not let people dictate your morality and your decisions. You create your own laws and principles, and let nobody deter you from your course. Their opinions are just their mental ejaculate.