One day you will realize that the version of you that felt lost, tired, and uncertain was actually the one being prepared for everything that came next. Good Evening
Marry while you're young:
Because as you get older you become "wiser", and wise people don't get married.
At 22, you are DUMB. And dumb is your superpower.
You are in love. Not logical. Not calculating. IN LOVE.
Stupid, blind, chest-hurting love. Your heart is soft.
Your ego is low.
At 22, she is dumb too. She doesn't ask your credit score. She doesn't ask "Where is this going?"
She just loves you because you make her laugh and you make her feel safe.
That dumb young love? It WORKS. It doesn't have exit plan. It just says: "I love you. Let's figure it out."
Now look at 32. At 32, you are "WISE."
You have been hurt. Girl cheated in 2019. Girl lied in 2021. You have seen divorce. You have seen girls cheat at work, at gym, on trips. You have seen 1000 reasons why marriage is a scam.
At 22, you marry with your HEART. At 32, you marry with your CALCULATOR. And calculators never built legacy. Heart built legacy.