i don't like dealing with people who make me feel like i'm losing my mind trying to get them to understand how i feel. I don't like having to keep shit bottled up inside. I don't like feeling like my feelings don't matter. I can't deal with anyone who makes me feel like that.
one thing... I CAN NOT STAND.... is being ignored. if you're busy, say so. if you are not in the mood to talk, say so. if you are done with me, SAY SO. COMMUNICATE.
People do not care. They will hurt you & really go on about their lives. Not even slightly affected about what they did to you & how you feel. Regardless if it’s friendships, relationships or family
I'm not speaking to anybody who don't speak to me, I'm not showing up for anybody who don't show up for me, l'm not showing love to anybody who don't show love to me & I’m definitely not fake kickin it with anybody i know really don't fw me. And the fake love for favors? Out of the question! I'm all out of favors for y'all.
I don't need anybody in my life tolerating me. If you really don't like me or you have any doubts about me as a person, cut me off. On this route i'm going In life I need nothing but positivity and genuine love.
if you're not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it won’t work for me. because i’m very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone and not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me.
i really don’t want to glamorise “low maintenance friendships” anymore. i actually want to talk to my girls often, be present in their lives and have them be present in mine. no one ghosts their romantic partners, so why are friends expected to just understand and adjust to that
Y’all feel a way when ppl isolate themselves, so they can process what they have going on and at the same time, you won’t give them the space to be vulnerable, when they’re around you. You basically expect them to show up, the way you see fit. It doesn’t work like that.
& as my friend, please don't talk about my life with your other friends, family, ect. thats really the FASTEST way for me to stop messing with you. my life aint meant to be a topic of conversation for ANYONE else..