Imagine being bitten by a snake, instead of saving yourself from the venom, U sit there trying to explain to the snake why U didn’t deserve that, as it slowly and painfully takes your life away from you
this isn’t about a snake.
@eyojoel77 BOY FUCK THEM PPL!!!
they did that shit, THEY MENT THAT SHIT. Ion wanna hear shit from nobody we maddd grown mfs know what they doing foh! Stop giving people the opportunity to play your face twice💯🤷🏾♀️
I require an apology and a real heartfelt conversation before I ever reconnect with people that wronged me. I need to know if you can admit that you were wrong and that it won’t happen again. I need to hear you take accountability while I look you in your eyes, because if the roles were reversed, I’d give you that same respect. Time alone doesn’t heal betrayal. You don’t get to pop back up in my life like nothing happened. If we can’t sit down and talk things out, there is no getting back cool.
Hurt changes people. Especially hurt that keeps repeating.
You can forgive someone and still not feel safe.
You can love someone and still be tired of being hurt by them.
Sometimes the hardest thing to get back is not the relationship. It's the version of you that once felt secure in that relationship.
I don’t want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasnt… GOOD!
Life mwamene ilili, It’s up to you to be happy or miserable. Social media standards will always deceive you, drink from your shabins, eat your chunks, wear your fake clothes. Life is how you make it at the end of the day!!
i'm finally coming to peace with the fact that you can't keep tripping over what you can't control, all you can do is stay solid on your end. Everyone gonna do what they want regardless of your feelings. Don't lose your mind tryna figure out where you went wrong.