There shouldn’t be shame about sending all your money to a pretty woman out of your league. It should be celebrated, knowing your place in the world and acting on it, that’s freedom and radical self acceptance
Men are naturally submissive. That’s why they follow so well. They love a hierarchy. Look at the Military. Look at how they dress like their favorite sports player.
If women were naturally submissive you wouldn’t need an entire system of oppression to try to keep them there.