Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse

Power dynamics | Perennial bad girl | Somatic therapist | Shadow Worker | Bondassage Practitioner®️

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

Find me in Berlin in August and September, and in Strasbourg, Basel and Zurich last week of August. Milan in mid September. Basel and Zurich late September, Berlin in October m. London in early September. Berlin in early and late November and Mexico City in mid-November. Buenos Aires from 26 December to 10 January. I will also be in Amsterdam , Brussels, and Paris in the Fall, get in touch via my site if you would like to get to know me. 🌶️ intimacy work.

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

A butch aesthetic, listening hands, and zero male ego in the room. You’re welcome.

📸 @captsydney

#sapphic #queerwomen #wlw #lesbiancommunity #bisexualwomen

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

I love working with women because they actually understand the pacing. We don’t rush the tease; we build the fire properly.

📸 @captsydney

#sapphic #queerwomen #wlw #lesbiancommunity #bisexualwomen

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

Today is a great day to show your love to a dominatrix...you can start by putting a smile on my face https://t.co/Q3R7Hh4x81

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

A good top doesn’t just give orders; she creates an environment where you genuinely don’t want to do anything else but obey

📸 @acalculatedrisk

#bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

A woman who knows how to open a heavy oak door, pay the cab before you reach for your bag, and undo your posture with one glance is a vanishing art form.

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

Flirting with a clever woman is like fencing with silk foils. It’s lovely right up until someone gets disarmed and pinned to the wall.

#bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

My rate card is not a suggestion box for your unvetted daydreams. It is a velvet rope.

📸 @acalculatedrisk

#bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

Next time you feel the urge to tell me you'd walk over hot coals to kiss my feet, just try booking a three hour social date instead. It’s vastly less embarrassing.

📸 @captsydney

#bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

The fantasy: locked in my dungeon for all eternity. The reality: you’d ask for the Wi-Fi password in twenty minutes and complain about the draft.

📸 @acalculatedrisk

#bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination

[Tabitha Jones @TabithaJonesLDN]

Everyone in the room (including the snack trolly) collapsed into a whimpering mess

[Mistress Adreena Angela @InannaLdn]

A Friday night well spent…

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

@JolieStassi I’d want to go if it were not in the US or required travel there

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

@InannaLdn Cute

[LittleGothBat @littlegothbat_x]

You can talk.! You can doubt.! You can obsess!

Just don’t forget who still has your attention!

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

The fantasy: locked in my dungeon for all eternity. The reality: you’d ask for the Wi-Fi password in twenty minutes and complain about the draft.

📸 @acalculatedrisk

#bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

Next time you feel the urge to tell me you'd walk over hot coals to kiss my feet, just try booking a three hour social date instead. It’s vastly less embarrassing.

📸 @captsydney

#bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

My rate card is not a suggestion box for your unvetted daydreams. It is a velvet rope.

📸 @acalculatedrisk

#bdsmcommunity #powerexchange #dominantwomen #kinkcommunity #femaledomination

[Valentina Dellagravis - Writer | Traveller | Muse @YesMissVal]

@Shrinkwrappp tell that to the millions of women who don’t have their period because living in a dangerous world where we feel unsafe has interfered with our body processes, or the millions of women who have had a hysterectomy, or any of the billion women who are in the menopause. My advice to you: keep your mouth shut rather and fewer people will think you’re an idiot rather than opening it and telling us definitively that you are.

[Tabitha Jones @TabithaJonesLDN]

I’m neck deep in a meringue fixation! The next messy date must include meringue - I insist.

Eat-on Mess? 😏

[Amber Lavelle @meetwithamber]

Me in my natural habitat