College+ showed me that’s a lot of mfkers weren’t parented or even raised. Just housed, fed, & tolerated until it was legal to unleash them on the rest of us
Normalize shaming and making people feel uncomfortable. Your married brother brings his side piece to the bbq, say something. Your homie isn’t taking care of his kids, cut them off. We can’t be enabling such poor behaviour. Holding people accountable begins with relationship.