Go after women who like you. Not women you like and are trying to convince to like you back.
That is one of the most expensive lessons life has taught me.
You spend months, sometimes years, trying to prove your worth to someone who is not sure about you. You show up. You do the most. You bend over backwards. You overexplain yourself. You try to be everything they want, hoping that one day, they will finally see you the way you see them. And deep down, you know something is off. You know they are not matching your energy. You know you are doing too much for someone who is doing the bare minimum. But you keep going because you think if you just try a little harder, they will choose you.
But you cannot convince someone to love you. You cannot negotiate genuine attraction. You cannot force someone to feel what they do not feel. And every moment you spend chasing someone who is not sure about you is a moment you are not available for the person who will be sure about you.
The women who like you will not make you guess. They will not make you work for their attention. They will show up. They will reach out. They will make time for you. They will make you feel wanted because they actually want you. And that is not a game. That is not a tactic. That is just what interest looks like.
But instead, so many of us keep pouring into people who are not pouring back.
-don’t watch Euphoria
-don’t call your girlfriend your “partner”
-don’t own a dog under 50lbs
-lift weights
-go for walks
-don’t follow Instagram models
-don’t cheat on your girlfriend
-stay up til 2AM with your girlfriend’s dad on Christmas Eve watching Saving Private Ryan
-call your friends for no reason
-treat customer service employees kindly
-buy drinks for people without expecting one in return
-take random moments throughout your week to be grateful for your health
I was offered sex today by a 26-year-old woman. In exchange, I was supposed to advertise some kind of bathroom cleaner on my 𝕏 profile.
Of course I declined because of my strong morals and willpower, which is just as strong as Ajax, the super strong bathroom cleaner now available scented with lemon or vanilla.
cut the habits that waste your time, delete the distractions, let go of the memories that keep pulling you backward, stop forcing conversations with people who no longer align with you, say no without guilt, protect your attention & make room for what actually moves you forward.
in order to be untouchable as a man, you must be invisible. stay in the shadows, don't show off, don't overconsume and don't stand out.
stay faceless. you can show your face but you still need to stay invisible. real power is the man behind the mask. when you stay faceless, your enemies see less. they can attack less. they really don't see you. never take too much credit. no need for recognition. no need for praise.
compliments don't make you wealthy. ego doesn't put food on the table.
do not live your life for the affirmation of others. live your life for the affirmation of your loved ones. head down, learn what you don't know, observe, and never stop. never forget that god runs the world. he is in charge. he controls every aspect of every single person's, creature's, bug's life, everything that's alive. always remember that and never let someone tell you otherwise. bookmark this.
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You need boredom. A lot of it. Start by going on walks without music. No stimulation. No distractions of any kind. If you learn to sit with your own thoughts, for long enough, in time they will start serving you. You'll start having ideas once again. You'll start developing an extreme sense of clarity that will shift you into the next stage of your life. All by being bored, which is pretty insane.