Men always spare womens egos because womens egos are very fragile.
If men were completely honest and told women the brutal truth about themselves, most women would never get over it or heal.
Relationships and marriages would crash at a much higher rate. They might even go insane.
Your relationships and marriages lasted only because men chose to lie to you everyday to spare your ego and just let it go.
So thinking you are the ones tolerating men or putting yourself last for the relationship and marriage to work is actually funny.
You all cant even stand the word FAT, now imagine how many brutal truths we have kept from you.
You are lucky men are way more emotionally intelligent than women.
There’s a broke phase you’ll send a billing message to someone and off your data immediately bcos you’re ashamed or don’t want embarrassing response that will hurt you.
That phase can make a sane person go insane.
stop letting people consume you. they didn't call? go to sleep. they didn't message you? put your phone down and have a better day. they left you on read? delete the conversation. they didn't make an effort? match their energy. never let your happiness depend on anyone