Normalize letting people be themselves without trying to change or control them, so you can see who they are and what they'd rather do, and let your boundaries and their reciprocity tell you how much access you should give them.
I'd rather cut you off completely than have to limit the way I fuck with you. lan never been a half ass lover or friend so that's just some shit I won't accept
Yall need to start being mean to people that are mean to YOU. Stop that bigger person shit.. Release your inner bitches or whatever Natasha Bedingfield said!