Just apologize to your partner when you know you messed up bruhโฆ all that manipulative behavior & getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. People love to say theyโre grown until its time to take accountability.
People be so self centered and self righteous that they canโt see themselves. Those kind of people do things for others as a means to feed their own ego and pride; it veils their selfishness.
Selah.
No one teaches you how to admit you might be addicted to the hope of someone. Nor how to stop being loyal to someone who isnโt emotionally equipped to receive what youโre offering. Some part of you knows that. Let me explainโฆ.
Our values have to align. We donโt need to have the same hobbies, same taste in music or the same love languages. But if we donโt see the world through a similar moral lens itโs not going to work. Because at the end
stop letting people consume you. they didnโt call? go to sleep. they didnโt message you? put your phone down and have a better day. they left you on read? delete the conversation. they didnโt make an effort? match their energy. never let your happiness depend on anyone.