I have a natural inclination to want to provide for a woman I like. It happens almost instantly once feelings start to develop. That feeling goes away the moment I see or feel she thinks she’s entitled to this. The “as he should” or “that’s what a man is supposed to do” mentality turns me off so bad
Never understood the male fascination with doing this to their women. Why would you waste her hands tied rather than feeling them grab your back, arms and ass, pulling you tighter?!
And it’s not a turn on for most of us either!
This right here is what birthed the popular “Father’s side no send us” narrative
Almost every child grew up seeing folks from their Mother’s side around more
So any narrative about the Father’s side flies.