I have some dude who hacked into my account back in early fortnite days - maybe from Iran. He bought everything with his own money (I don't have my card linked to my Epic or any associated accounts and have checked for relative transactions through my bank). He just played with his friends, but eventually he disappeared and the friend requests became less and less. I ended up archiving the skins he used and now I look at them like a memorial. I hope he's okay out there.
I don't think we should use any online persona to excuse the obvious no-go's, but she's also allowed to express her discomfort afterwards. Again, as always, being polite is not an invitation. She's not responsible for their filter, even if she encouraged open questions jusr as she's allowed to be uncomfortable with it and express her discomfort afterwards.
VRChat is the closest I'll get to meeting my friends IRL.. At least for awhile.
Thank you all for hanging out with me today!!! My heart is full of warmth and fuzzies <3